Michaela schaur on Instagram: "1. He calls everything “drama” when it requires emotional effort. (So he avoids growth by labeling it negative.) 2. He watches you carry the conversation — and never notices. (He’s not curious about your mind, just your presence.) 3. He disappears emotionally when life gets hard. (If he can’t show up in stress, he won’t in marriage.) 4. He half-listens and forgets important details. (A man who loves you remembers. Period.) 5. He jokes about cheating or “open relati