I wasn’t sure I ever wanted to get married. Not because I didn’t believe in love, or because I’d had my heart broken too many times, or any of those other tired tropes that are often attached to a ...

Imagine going to couples therapy with your spouse for months, but you don’t notice any changes in your spouse’s behavior. In fact, it doesn’t even seem like they’re trying. Would you keep trying, or ...

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I wasn’t sure I ever wanted to get married. Not because I didn’t believe in love, or because I’d had my heart broken too many times, or any of those other tired tropes that are often attached to a ...

This is a useful question for this column, both because it comes up a lot, and because within it, there are a several matters that are worth digging into. First, you mention that therapy has been ...

Dear Annie: My husband and I have been married for 17 years and have five adopted children through foster care. We have gone through a lot of tough situations with the children during the last six ...

If you were never attracted to your husband, then you likely thought his other attributes compensated for this, and now you no longer are sure that they can. If you used to be attracted to him, but no ...